A small quiz

Will I find love this year?

What the next twelve months are actually asking of your heart.

A garland of small paper hearts hanging across a sunny window with a vase of tulips below, soft watercolour illustration

What the next twelve months are actually asking of your heart.

Nobody can tell you when love will arrive, and anybody who does is guessing with confidence. What can be read, honestly, is the weather you are standing in: how much room your life has, what you are still carrying, and what you would do if someone lovely turned up on a Tuesday. Answer these eight, and you will get three cards for the year ahead. Not a forecast. A picture of what this particular year is asking of you.

2 minutes · 8 questions

the questions in this quiz

  1. How much room is there in your week right now?

    • Some. There are evenings that are genuinely free
    • Almost none, and most of what fills it is not chosen
    • Plenty, and quite a lot of it is spent alone
    • Full, but full of people, in a way you like
  2. When did you last meet somebody new, in any context at all?

    • This month. New faces happen fairly often
    • You cannot remember. It has been the same rooms for a while
    • Recently, but you were not paying that kind of attention
    • Last week, and you thought about it afterward
  3. Imagine a first date three weeks from now. What does your body do?

    • Lifts a little. Nervous in the good way
    • Tires. You picture the effort before the person
    • Tenses, because of who it would not be
    • Grins, slightly, before you can stop it
  4. What are you still carrying from before?

    • Something, but it has stopped running the show
    • More than you let on. It still gets a vote
    • Almost nothing you would call heavy
    • One specific person, and you know their name
  5. What do your evenings look like, honestly?

    • Varied. Some out, some in, both are fine
    • Predictable. Same sofa, same hours
    • Busy with work you have not managed to put down
    • Full of people you love, if not of romance
  6. Somebody asks what you are looking for. You say:

    • Something real, and you could describe it in a sentence
    • You honestly do not know anymore
    • Not to be alone, mostly
    • You describe a way of feeling, not a type of person
  7. How do you feel about the last relationship, today?

    • Fond, or neutral. It happened, you learned
    • Still sore in places you did not expect
    • Relieved
    • You have not had one recently enough for this to apply
  8. What is different about you compared with a year ago?

    • You want different things, and you know what they are
    • Not much, and that is part of why you are here
    • You are steadier. Less easily talked out of yourself
    • You are more tired, and more honest

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