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Love, honestly

Most questions about love are really two questions: what is going on with him, and what do I want to do about it. The cards are good at the second one. These pieces take the first one seriously too, with the ordinary, honest reasons behind the signs people search for at two in the morning.

You will find the signs he likes you and the signs he is only pretending, soulmates and twin flames without the drama, and what to do when you have been carrying a feeling for a while. Nothing here will promise you an outcome. Every piece ends with one small thing that is yours to do.

17 pieces, newest first

Raindrops on a window with a cosy blanket and a cup of cocoa on the sill, soft watercolour illustration

Why did he pull away?

An honest look at why men pull away in a relationship, the ordinary reasons behind sudden distance, and what actually helps while you decide…

6 min read
A sealed letter with a wax seal beside a lit candle and dried flowers, soft watercolour illustration

Should I tell him how I feel

What to do when you have been carrying a feeling for someone and the question is whether to say it out loud, how to…

6 min read
Cooling cup of tea on a windowsill at dusk beside a phone lying face down and a single tarot card, soft watercolour illustration

Should I give him another chance

An honest look at whether to give him another chance, the questions worth asking before you decide, and what the pattern is telling you.

6 min read
Two candle flames reflected in a round antique mirror on a dressing table with rose petals and pearls, soft watercolour illustration

Is he my soulmate or twin flame

Not sure whether your connection is a soulmate bond or a twin flame? Here is what each word actually does, and the quieter question…

5 min read
A single pink rose blooming through a crack in an old stone garden wall, spring sunlight and new leaves, soft watercolour illustration

Will I ever find love again?

An honest, warm answer to will I ever find love again, after a divorce or a death, with no promises and one thing that…

6 min read
Two paper boats with tiny candles drifting toward each other on a calm lake at dusk, soft watercolour illustration

Twin flame reunion signs

The twin flame reunion signs people list, what each one probably is, the honest sentence about reunions, and one check on whether the story…

5 min read
Two pairs of boots side by side at a cottage doorway on an autumn evening, a lantern on the step, soft watercolour illustration

Is he my person?

Is he my person is really two questions, one about comfort and one about choice. A plain, warm look at both, and what you…

5 min read
Two cups of tea and a single flower in a small vase on a tray, sunlight across white bed linen, soft watercolour illustration

How to know if he loves you

How to know if he loves you without decoding his messages: the question underneath, what to ask him, when to ask it, and what…

6 min read
A delicate white porcelain mask lying beside a pink rose on a velvet dressing table, soft candlelight, soft watercolour illustration

Signs he pretends to love you

The gap between what he says and what the days do, why pretend is usually the wrong word for it, and what only one…

6 min read
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