Heart and mind
Why do I say yes when I want to say no
Why you agree when you mean no, what a reluctant yes costs you in love, and how to say a soft no in one…
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Everything Clara has written, newest first. Or choose a topic below.
Heart and mind
Why do I compare my relationship to others
Why do I compare my relationship to others? Why the mind measures against polished photos, what two cards add, and one small step for…
Heart and mind
How to protect your energy without shutting everyone out
What protecting your energy actually means, the signs you are running low, seven practical ways to guard it without going cold on people, and…
Heart and mind
How to stop thinking about someone
Why you cannot stop thinking about someone, what the thought is usually made of, and small ways to turn it down that work with…
Heart and mind
Why do I romanticize my ex
Why do I romanticize my ex after a breakup? Why the mind keeps the good version, what the Moon and the Eight of Cups…
Heart and mind
Why do I keep rereading old texts?
Why do I keep rereading old texts? A warm, plain look at what the scrolling is really for, and a gentler way to visit…
Heart and mind
A tarot spread for grief, for the weeks after a loss
A gentle five-card tarot spread for grief: not to explain the loss, but to give the feelings somewhere to go. With notes on reading…
Heart and mind
Why do I want someone who doesn’t want me?
Why you keep wanting someone who does not want you back, what the pull is usually made of, and one small step to move…
Heart and mind
How to be alone without feeling lonely
Alone and lonely are not the same thing. Small anchors, an easy plan for the hard evenings, and one card to keep you company…
Heart and mind
Can you be friends with your ex?
Can you be friends with your ex? A warm, honest look at when it works, a quiet test you can try tonight, and when…
Heart and mind
Why do I get attached so fast?
Why you fall for people quickly, what it says about you, and how to keep the warmth while you slow down the decisions, with…
Stars and numbers
Scorpio season 2026: a tarot reading for the deep end
Scorpio season runs from 23 October to 21 November 2026. What it tends to stir up, the card that belongs to it, the dates…
Clara's Sunday letter
A letter to start the week with.
Every Sunday evening Clara writes about the week ahead: what the moon is doing, which card keeps coming up, and one thing worth practicing.
Only on Sundays, and you can stop whenever you like.
