Heart and mind
How to know if you’re over your ex
Wondering how to know if you're over your ex? Here are the quiet signs, the ones that only look like closure, and one small…
Journal page 3 of 9
Everything Clara has written, newest first. Or choose a topic below.
Heart and mind
Should I block my ex?
Wondering whether to block your ex? Here is how to tell if it will help, the softer settings in between, and one small step…
Heart and mind
Crystals for anxiety: what they can and cannot do
Eight crystals for anxiety, what they can honestly do, and how to use a stone as an anchor for breathing and grounding.
Heart and mind
Why do I feel empty after a breakup?
Feeling empty after a breakup is common. Here is why the quiet gets so loud, what the emptiness is asking for, and one small…
Heart and mind
Why am I so jealous in my relationship?
Why jealousy turns up in a relationship, what your mind adds to it, and a twenty-minute way to steady yourself before you say anything.
Sunday letter
A letter for Sunday 18 October
Dear you,
The halfway point is where a plan meets real life. If this week feels harder, it usually means you chose something real.
Clara
Heart and mind
Why do I get anxious when he doesn’t text back
Anxious when he doesn't text back? Why a quiet phone feels so loud, what the cards say about waiting, and one small step to…
Heart and mind
My ex has a new girlfriend
My ex has a new girlfriend and I can't stop looking. Why it stings so much, what to do in the next hour, and…
Love, honestly
Am I in a situationship? The signs, and what to do next
Eight situationship signs, when an unlabelled connection is fine, how to ask what you are, and how to end a situationship kindly.
Heart and mind
Why do I feel guilty after breaking up
Feeling guilty after you end a relationship is common and rarely means you chose wrong. Here is what each kind of guilt asks, and…
Heart and mind
How to get over a situationship
Trying to get over a situationship that never had a name? Here is how to close it yourself, rearrange your habits, and take one…
Heart and mind
My ex texted me out of the blue: what to do
Your ex texted you out of nowhere and your stomach dropped. Here is how to read it calmly, four ways to reply, and one…
Clara's Sunday letter
A letter to start the week with.
Every Sunday evening Clara writes about the week ahead: what the moon is doing, which card keeps coming up, and one thing worth practicing.
Only on Sundays, and you can stop whenever you like.
