The journal

Journal

Letters, card meanings and the small things worth noticing. Take whatever is useful and leave the rest.

  • Twin flame vs soulmate

    What people actually mean by twin flame and soulmate, where the ideas came from, and how to tell which one you are using to explain a difficult relationship.

    September 8, 2026
  • Why you keep seeing your birthday numbers

    Why your birth date keeps turning up on clocks, receipts and door numbers, what is actually happening, and why it still means something worth noticing.

    September 8, 2026
  • Signs he likes you

    The signs he likes you that hold up, the ones people over-read, and why the whole exercise is less reliable than one slightly awkward question.

    September 8, 2026
  • How to know if he’s the one

    A plain look at how to know if he's the one, why certainty is the wrong test, and the six questions that say more about a relationship than a feeling can.

    September 8, 2026
  • Is he thinking about me during no contact?

    What is probably happening in his head during no contact, why you cannot know, and how to survive the hour of the day when the question is loudest.

    September 8, 2026
  • Will he come back after no contact?

    An honest look at what no contact does and does not do, why the silence is so loud, and what to do with the weeks while you are not being told anything.

    September 8, 2026
  • A letter for Sunday 6 September

    Most of what you're waiting for isn't late, it's quiet, and there is a real difference between the two. This week I'd like you to practice feeling that difference. When the moon disappears on Thursday it hasn't gone anywhere. It has simply turned away for a moment to do its work in the dark, and I have a feeling some of your answers are doing the same.

    September 6, 2026