Learn to read
How to read your own tarot cards
A plain start for reading your own cards: choosing a deck, the daily card habit, three questions that get you a reading, and what…
Journal page 8 of 9
Everything Clara has written, newest first. Or choose a topic below.
Exes and no contact
No contact day by day: the first thirty days
What the first thirty days of no contact actually feel like, stretch by stretch, what to do in each one, and the honest truth…
Heart and mind
Limerence, and why you cannot stop thinking about them
The word for thinking about one person for hours a day. Where it comes from, why uncertainty makes it worse, how long it lasts,…
Heart and mind
Attachment styles explained, kindly
Where attachment styles came from, what the four patterns look like in an ordinary week, why the label is not a personality, and what…
Moon and ritual
A new moon ritual for beginning again
A new moon ritual that works: one honest twenty minutes, one sentence with a verb and a day in it, and the small first…
Moon and ritual
A waning moon ritual for letting go
A simple waning moon ritual with nothing to buy: what the waning moon is, why the two weeks after the full moon suit endings,…
Stars and numbers
Mercury retrograde October 2026
Mercury retrograde runs 24 October to 13 November 2026. What it actually is, why it does not break your laptop, and what the three…
Love, honestly
Twin flame vs soulmate
What people actually mean by twin flame and soulmate, where the ideas came from, and how to tell which one you are using to…
Stars and numbers
Why you keep seeing your birthday numbers
Why your birth date keeps turning up on clocks, receipts and door numbers, what is actually happening, and why it still means something worth…
Love, honestly
Signs he likes you
The signs he likes you that hold up, the ones people over-read, and why the whole exercise is less reliable than one slightly awkward…
Love, honestly
How to know if he’s the one
A plain look at how to know if he's the one, why certainty is the wrong test, and the six questions that say more…
Exes and no contact
Is he thinking about me during no contact?
What is probably happening in his head during no contact, why you cannot know, and how to survive the hour of the day when…
Clara's Sunday letter
A letter to start the week with.
Every Sunday evening Clara writes about the week ahead: what the moon is doing, which card keeps coming up, and one thing worth practicing.
Only on Sundays, and you can stop whenever you like.
